Foster Child Adoption 101
The Basics of Adding to Your Family Through the Foster Care System
Nov 8, 2007
Bleak Statistics
Statistically, there are over 117,000 children in the foster care system nation-wide who are waiting for adoption, according to the Child Welfare League of America. Of the children who are awaiting a forever family, an estimated 18,000 will “age-out” of the system, which means they will become too old, usually 18, to remain under the foster care umbrella. With no one to turn to and no where to go, they typically end up homeless or in prison, the outlook for society’s orphans is often bleak.
Adopting a child out of the foster care system is not for the faint of heart. However, if you and your spouse (should you have one) are up for the challenge, this method of adding to your family does have its benefits and rewards.
First Things First
Before you go any further you will need to determine if adoption is really right for you. Not everyone is cut out for adoption and often children who are in the foster care system carry with them unique problems and behaviors. So be sure that adoption is right for you. Also, do not forget your spouse. If he or she is hesitant, deal with those concerns first before proceeding. Make sure your relationship can withstand the demands of an emotionally, and perhaps physically and/ or mentally needy child. If you already have children, prepare them as well. Adoption brings big changes to the entire household. Don’t forget everyone involved.
Another good idea is to consult with your extended family and friends. Are they open to adoption? Will they accept an adopted child, especially a child with handicaps or of another race? Begin now to build up a support system for your family. This will be invaluable to you throughout the adoption process.
Next, contact your local child placement agency. Many states require you to attend specialized training courses, usually free of charge, which you will need to complete before moving on to your home study. These classes are an excellent way to learn more about adoption and foster care, and gives you much insight into the world of the foster child.
The Home Study
The child placement agency will also help you to prepare for your home study. A home study quite simply is a study of your home and family. You will have several documents to gather together such as: marriage licenses, divorce decrees, financial documents, health assessments, and letters of reference. It is work, but it’s worth it.
In Conclusion
Once you have your approved home study, the agency will then help you to find the child or children who are the right fit for your family. Most agencies remain involved even post-adoption to continue to assist you and your newly adopted child as you both adjust to your new life together.
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